I approached three sets today. One was a two-set with two decent looking latinas, the rest were all by their lonesomes, and for all intents and purposes, UGs.
Let's start with the beginning. I've been reading "The Game", and I noticed a Ross Jeffries approach anxiety tip: go up to a girl and simply say, "Hi, I'm Mannie the Martian, What is your favorite flavor of bowling ball?".
I was attracted to none of them. I have this mindset that if I approach a HB and blow it, that there won't be loads more, which there clearly is. I feel that by failing now, I will limit my success later by "saturating the market" with my failure. I seriously need to work on my inner game. Even approaching the UGs was hard, and made me incredibly nervous. I noticed however, the first girl I approached was the hardest, despite the fact the rest of the girls were at least somewhat prettier than her. When my mindset was about getting over the approach, and not her number, or her snatch, it was much easier.
The first girl actually seemed interested though, and though her response was decidedly lackluster, "I don't have a favorite", I felt like she was open-minded about the whole thing. The second was not. Her response was exactly the same, but she finished it with a "Look, I need to finish this assignment before class...blahblahblah." Which was clearly a blow off. She didn't even look up from her "assignment" when I spoke to her. It wasn't as devastating as I thought it would be. Easy even. No dents on either approach.
The last was a two-set. Neither was a girl I would inherently want to make out with, but I reminded myself that's not what it's about. I was stupid. I approached from directly behind them, said my piece. They seemed stunned, couldn't even answer, the girl on the right was giving me a strange look, while the girl on the left was almost intrigued. I asked if she preferred grape or watermelon, and gladly chirped grape. I ran out of material at this point (and the other girl was almost snarling), so I excused myself and left.
Can I consider this a success? I think so, I made more cold approaches today than I have in four cumulative years. Can you believe that? I'm enthused from today, and worried about girls telling each other how downright crazy I am. God, I'm scared to think about it.
Well, 'til next time.
Psychonaut
9.14.2007
9.13.2007
The Beginning
I'm horrible at girls. Just awful.
I plan to change. I plan to use "PUA" techniques and theory to see where it takes me. Hopefully into a lot of beds (if you know what I mean).
The format of this blog is simple: I awkwardly approach girls, and then I write about how miserably I did. I'll tell my adventures of a AFC on his way to becoming a Master.
I'd just like to take this opportunity to put it out there: I'm a virgin. I've never had a girlfriend. My kissing experience is minimal. I've only really asked out one girl, she said yes, then later gave me the LJBF talk. I was devastated. I had a huge crush on this girl, a major case of one-itis. It was just a dance, but she had said yes. It was a huge rush, and then- hardly a week later, and after some idiotic romantic gestures (Danger Will Robinson!), she decided that I made a better friend than anything.
The majority of last year I spent in the friend zone of a girl I liked, which ended up badly- though I did get to see her titties!
A little about myself: I'm 18, almost 19; 5'8, 193 pounds (at the moment, I'll explain later), I'm not bad looking, although I have nearly no self-confidence, so I'm sure I'm better looking than I think. I am occasionally aware of eye contact by girls I consider good-looking. That's a good sign right? I go to a community college in the area, where plenty of girls pack the halls so to speak. Tons of a sets waiting to be opened, if I'm brave enough.
At the beginning of the summer I decided to lose weight, at 220 pounds, I was clearly overweight, and having no confidence in myself, I had no chance (in my mind) of attracting a girl. Three and a half months later, 30 pounds lighter, I am already feeling confidence in my newish body. I'm planning on losing another twenty or so.
I'm hoping that this medium will encourage me to approach more girls, and ultimately be more successful. I want to change, I want to be a better person, and I want to screw girls at the same time! Or even a girlfriend.
Thats all for now!
Psychonaut
The Adventures of an AFC
I plan to change. I plan to use "PUA" techniques and theory to see where it takes me. Hopefully into a lot of beds (if you know what I mean).
The format of this blog is simple: I awkwardly approach girls, and then I write about how miserably I did. I'll tell my adventures of a AFC on his way to becoming a Master.
I'd just like to take this opportunity to put it out there: I'm a virgin. I've never had a girlfriend. My kissing experience is minimal. I've only really asked out one girl, she said yes, then later gave me the LJBF talk. I was devastated. I had a huge crush on this girl, a major case of one-itis. It was just a dance, but she had said yes. It was a huge rush, and then- hardly a week later, and after some idiotic romantic gestures (Danger Will Robinson!), she decided that I made a better friend than anything.
The majority of last year I spent in the friend zone of a girl I liked, which ended up badly- though I did get to see her titties!
A little about myself: I'm 18, almost 19; 5'8, 193 pounds (at the moment, I'll explain later), I'm not bad looking, although I have nearly no self-confidence, so I'm sure I'm better looking than I think. I am occasionally aware of eye contact by girls I consider good-looking. That's a good sign right? I go to a community college in the area, where plenty of girls pack the halls so to speak. Tons of a sets waiting to be opened, if I'm brave enough.
At the beginning of the summer I decided to lose weight, at 220 pounds, I was clearly overweight, and having no confidence in myself, I had no chance (in my mind) of attracting a girl. Three and a half months later, 30 pounds lighter, I am already feeling confidence in my newish body. I'm planning on losing another twenty or so.
I'm hoping that this medium will encourage me to approach more girls, and ultimately be more successful. I want to change, I want to be a better person, and I want to screw girls at the same time! Or even a girlfriend.
Thats all for now!
Psychonaut
The Adventures of an AFC
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